Autism and the Role of the Mother (Part 2)

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Building on the previous discussion, here we address additional aspects of raising a child with autism and the mother’s role in fostering development.

To further help an autistic child, here are more important points to consider:

1. How can social interaction and play be improved?
2. How do you handle sensory challenges?
3. What kind of support can doctors and specialists provide?
4. How does a mother take care of herself?
5. How can you prepare for the future?

1. Social Interaction and Play

Social interaction is difficult for children with autism, but it is essential. Encouraging play with siblings or peers and teaching them to take turns is a valuable way to build social skills. Autistic children may prefer solitary or repetitive play, but structured play with clear rules can promote social engagement. Isolating the child is not helpful—exposure to social settings and social skill training can help increase their ability to interact with others.

2. Handling Sensory Challenges

Autistic children may be hypersensitive or under-sensitive to sensory inputs such as light, sound, or touch. Mothers need to observe their child’s sensory preferences and create an environment that minimizes discomfort. Measures such as reducing noise, dimming lights, or using weighted blankets can help the child cope with sensory overload and reduce meltdowns.

3. Taking Help from Doctors and Specialists

Both the mother and child need support from professionals. Autism requires management, not treatment. Good handling of problems leads to positive outcomes, while poor handling can create abnormal behaviors. Early intervention services, speech and occupational therapies, and social skills training from experts can greatly help the child. Mothers should learn from these professionals and cooperate fully to ensure the best possible support for their child.

4. Self-Care for Mothers

Raising an autistic child is physically and emotionally demanding. Mothers need to take care of their mental health. Joining support groups with other mothers in similar situations can provide emotional support and advice. Celebrating small milestones and recognizing progress will help maintain a positive mindset. Mothers should prioritize their own well-being as much as their child’s.

5. Preparing for the Future

While it’s important to focus on the present, mothers should also prepare for what comes next. As the child grows, their needs will change, and they will require new skills to become more independent. Teaching them daily living skills and fostering independence should start early to help them navigate the future more effectively.

Autism is a lifelong journey, and the mother plays a pivotal role in her child’s development. With love, patience, and support from family and professionals, mothers can help their autistic child thrive. Understanding the unique needs of the child and providing them with a stable, loving environment will enhance their quality of life and ensure they reach their full potential.

– Dr. Anil Mokashi (Pediatrician)
MBBS, MD, DCH, FIAP, PhD
(Child Growth and Development)